This is
really an Important topic to Think and share with our Generation, anybody who
accepts and follows this way of mind-set, Please do share with all your friends
and Loved ones.
Nowadays Marriage and Love Relationships are
just a fun game; We hear people getting united in relationships and then we
hear stories of their break ups.
And many
count this as something "Normal".
This type of
life is really Pathetic and Abnormal;
We as an
individual should take strong decision and follow strong principles regarding
this type of life; No matter what's going on, but as an individual of strong
integrity we should Resist and Stand
against such a Way of Life.
Don't get attracted to a person just by their looks
or the fame they possess in an institute where we are studying or in a place
where we work or anywhere else. Attraction is normal and it happens to all of
us, but what we Value more, only can
influence us in a stronger way.
What we
should value, the most in a relation
is Mutual Understanding, which is
the most
important factor in a relationship; Physical attraction or Physical love do play an important role, but
it's not the strongest bonding factor in a marriage or any love relationship;
The Most Bonding factor in any relationship is the Mutual Understanding and Love and Respect that individuals have for
each other.
Physical attraction and Physical love
is really important but that should happen and come from the Mutual Understanding and the Strong
Commitment that the two individual have towards each other, rather than
from lust.
Don't try to
have a Mutual Understanding from a Physical relationship. It won't work,
that way.
Many Men
think flirting or keeping relationship with several Women at the same time is
an act of Manhood. "Any Fool" Yes
Any Fool, can have such a type of relation, there is nothing Manhood
in it . The Real Manhood is in being committed to one Women for a Lifetime.
Such a
Person is a Person of Integrity and Man
or Woman to be greatly Honored.
Marriage or
any Love Relationship is not a thing to be done for fun, It's not at all a fun game. It is not a Car or Mobile
Hand-set that we Purchased one day and
then we change it;
It's should
be a lifetime Commitment that we
make with each other. And In Life there may be times, when there will be difference
of opinion with each other, But that should be solved instantly by love and
affection and apologizing to each other;
When we apologize we won't become small
or less valuable but it actually increases the honor and love in each other's
heart.
Never Forget It's easy
to Break a Relationship and that can be done in seconds , but it takes a life
time to build one.
The Best Gift that a Woman and a Man
can give to their life Partner is their Virginity. Do not be deceived by physical
affections and loose the biggest Gift that God
has given us to offer our Life Partner.
So long to
have relations where both are able to Mutually understand each other and develop
Trust and Intimacy to a higher level; Where we become examples to
other married couples and those planning to get married or getting into love
relationships.
In the Long
Track of Life it's not the Physical attractions
or attachments that is going to keep you walking together; But it's the Mutual Understanding
and Love for each other that is going to keep you together forever.
So develop friendships, Relations that are real and
deep, that will make you smile and also bring a smile to your Family and
Loved ones too;
This is
dedicated Specially to Parents, So
that they can teach and help their Children make Good Decision in Life.
If you
support this Blog. Share with Friends and Lets Create a Culture where we Value Relationships and Family in a Higher Way.
( A
Topic which will be Continued......)
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