Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts

Saturday, 13 August 2016

Human User Manual!


All things which we use in our household or our work place has got a user manual which tells us, how it should be used and we always follow the manual while using those things.

For e.g. we don't put our phone in washing machine for cleaning purpose or we don't keep our shoes in the Refrigerator., We all know how to use those things;

And what if we see a person who does such things , we might laugh at them or might say he has lost his mind, Right?

Likewise maybe we have not read a Human manual, and because of that we don't know how to operate our own system and also operate others around us.

Scientist's Recently quoted a very interesting truth about Human Brain and it says:

 "Brain is wired for Love"

Our original design is Love.

We are here on this earth only with one purpose, that is to love others and being loved.

We are taught from the time we are born, you have to become this, and you have to become that. But no one has ever told us that we are Love beings designed to love and Honor each other..

Good Manual

All the problems we see around us are because from the time we were born, we were forced to operate in a way that was really contrary to our authentic design.

And our Brain that is wired for Love, Don't know actually what to do when it receives signals contrary to its Design.

Brain gets confused when it receives signals contrary to its design and then a chaos is formed inside the brain and body responds according to what the brain processes.

A Healthy Brain, sends Healthy Signals in the entire body which projects a Mentally Fit and Healthy Individual.

Also one of the discoveries scientists revealed is that 95% of sickness are because of wrong thinking patterns developed from childhood.

Brain functions improperly and fails to send the proper signals in Body, Leading to different pains or working difficulties in different parts of the Body.     


We can operate in our full potential, only when we realize how we are designed and operated accordingly.

Whenever we are Accepted, Loved, Honored by our Friends and Family , we feel so valuable and loved and feel like we are at the Top of the world.

Many a times in our society people are treated very rudely from their very childhood which creates brokenness in them, and then they pass this rudeness to others too.

So we are the ones who should take an initiative, else we will be building a culture of hatredness and rejection which will lead to a broken society full of pain and broken people, who can pass only one thing to the society, i.e. brokenness.

Our Identity is: We are Love being's designed to love ourselves and others around us.

And when we start operating in our original design, everything in our life just falls in place;

When we start operating in our original design others around us will also get impacted and our culture also will be greatly influenced;

 Others around us who have not read this, may walk in a way contrary to the Human manual; But our duty is to let them know this truth;

And having read this Human manual still if you are operating in an identity which the world has projected in front of you. Then it would be like telling, all my neighbors and friends are keeping shoes in the refrigerator so I also will do.

If you have read the Human Manual and known your True Design, and still keeping your shoes in the wrong place as your friend is doing then you are world's biggest fool; 

Who even knowing the original design don't want to operate in the real identity and also allowing others to operate in the wrong identity which they have been following because of a wrong Manual they have been following.

So Follow your True Identity and operate in it, and together lets make this world a Beautiful Place of Love and Honor.

Have a Great Day!

                                                      (To Be Continued....)

Monday, 4 April 2016

Creating a Culture, that Transform a Generation.

love, relationships,commitment,trust

This is really an Important topic to Think and share with our Generation, anybody who accepts and follows this way of mind-set, Please do share with all your friends and Loved ones.

Nowadays Marriage and Love Relationships are just a fun game; We hear people getting united in relationships and then we hear stories of their break ups.

And many count this as something "Normal".

This type of life is really Pathetic and Abnormal;

We as an individual should take strong decision and follow strong principles regarding this type of life; No matter what's going on, but as an individual of strong integrity we should Resist and Stand against such a Way of Life.

Don't  get attracted to a person just by their looks or the fame they possess in an institute where we are studying or in a place where we work or anywhere else. Attraction is normal and it happens to all of us, but what we Value more, only can influence us in a stronger way.

What we should value, the most in a relation is Mutual Understanding, which is the most important factor in a relationship; Physical attraction or Physical love do play an important role, but it's not the strongest bonding factor in a marriage or any love relationship; The Most Bonding factor in any relationship is the Mutual Understanding and Love and Respect that individuals have for each other.

Physical attraction and Physical love is really important but that should happen and come from the Mutual Understanding and the Strong Commitment that the two individual have towards each other, rather than from lust.  

Don't try to have a Mutual Understanding from a Physical relationship. It won't work, that way.  


Many Men think flirting or keeping relationship with several Women at the same time is an act of Manhood. "Any FoolYes Any Fool, can have such a type of relation, there is nothing Manhood in it . The Real Manhood is in being committed to one Women  for a Lifetime.

Such a Person is a Person of Integrity and Man or Woman to be greatly Honored.


Marriage or any Love Relationship is not a thing to be done for fun, It's not at all a fun game. It is not a Car or Mobile Hand-set  that we Purchased one day and then we change it;

It's should be a lifetime Commitment that we make with each other. And In Life there may be times, when there will be difference of opinion with each other, But that should be solved instantly by love and affection and apologizing to each other;

 When we apologize we won't become small or less valuable but it actually increases the honor and love in each other's heart.  

Never Forget It's easy to Break a Relationship and that can be done in seconds , but it takes a life time to build one. 

The Best Gift that a Woman and a Man can give to their life Partner is their Virginity. Do not be deceived by physical affections and loose the biggest Gift that God has given us to offer our Life Partner.

So long to have relations where both are able to Mutually understand each other and develop Trust and Intimacy  to a higher level; Where we become examples to other married couples and those planning to get married or getting into love relationships.

marriage,love,examples to other couples


In the Long Track of Life it's not the Physical attractions or attachments that is going to keep you walking  together; But it's the Mutual Understanding and Love for each other that is going to keep you together forever.

So develop friendships, Relations that are real and deep, that will make you smile and also bring a smile to your Family and Loved ones too;

This is dedicated Specially to Parents, So that they can teach and help their Children make Good Decision in Life.

If you support this Blog. Share with Friends and Lets Create a Culture where we Value Relationships and Family in a Higher Way.

                                                                    ( A Topic which will be Continued......)