Marriage Relationship

⁠⁠⁠Today in "Family our Biggest Strength" we share with you " Marriage Relationship".

Marriage Relationship is a union of two different Individuals; And It is a life time commitment of Love and Faithfulness, that both make with each other.

When we say Love in marriage, it does not mean there isn't any differences of opinion coming through the way;

Differences of opinion will come at times, but remember one thing: Husband and Wife are not in any competition, where both compete for who is Right and who is Wrong.

Always Remember Husband and Wife are both playing from the same team and both are there to help and motivate each other at every point of Life.

 In Marriage Relationship both Husband and Wife are coming from two different background ; So the moment Marriage happens does not mean couples are bonded and have 100% understanding towards each other;

Understanding and Bonding is a process that happens as the couple begins to spend time to know each other. Love is something that gets deeper and deeper when exercised continually.

The world around us may teach: The passion and Love in marriage is only for some years ,then everything just becomes a routine and it won't have the enthusiasm and joy which it had in the beginning.

But actually it's the other way around;

A married couple who have decided to Love and understand each other, for them their Love graph doesn't move down but it keeps elevating every second.

Allow your Love and affection to influence your spouse in such a degree where your love for each other gets matured and both of you understand the mindset and the spirit with which your spouse reacts to different situations.

The more the time spend: The more the Love, the more the Care, the more the Excitement for each other Increases.

As the understanding between the Couple increases, the marriage Relationship will take a whole new dimension; It will turn into something so glorious, that both of them won't trade it for anything else.

Never forget Family is actually born from the Beautiful Bond called Marriage and when the Marriage is Healthy, the family is Healthy, and Healthy families together form a Healthy Society, and it just goes on and on and forms a beautiful world of Love and Joy.

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Family Our Biggest Strength 

Family Our Biggest Strength - Intro

Human beings are Relational Beings.

I believe God is the One who designed Family, where we all can experience and taste different relations with each other in Love;

 And this love is something worth spending time for.

And Family is a place where we all can be real and express our likes and dislikes openly.

And when we start losing the value of this awesome Relationship, we many a times try to counterfeit that joy from an outside world; by having friends who also had similar experiences of not enjoying good relationships from family and they end up making a counterfeit family.

And then all that love and care which God designed us to have relationally from a family.

We try to get it from outside our family and end up doing stupid stuffs in-order just to have a feeling of acceptance.

This is one of the main reasons why youngsters are getting into drugs and different addictions, as they are trying to fill their hearts need of love and acceptance in a counterfeit way.

I have heard people who have been addicted to drugs say: I am not able to get out of it;

This is the same condition for a person who have enjoyed a good relationship with his Family.

The love and joy which we enjoy relationally from our family is much stronger than any drug in this world, and once we have been addicted to this Family Love ❤ Drug.

We also will be quoting the same phrase which was above mentioned that is: I am not able to get out of this, and I don't want to get out of this Family love experience.

There is no bigger drug than Love, and once you are addicted to it, no one in the world can bring you out of it.

(This is just an introduction of a big topic which we are going to discuss on:

     "The Importance of Family";

Here we will be sharing many different topics on different form of relationships and the strength it brings in an individual's life

Also if you want us to discuss on any other areas or topics kindly let us know by commenting below on our posts.

Thank you. )

Human User Manual!

All things which we use in our household or our work place has got a user manual which tells us, how it should be used and we always follow the manual while using those things.

For e.g. we don't put our phone in washing machine for cleaning purpose or we don't keep our shoes in the Refrigerator., We all know how to use those things;

And what if we see a person who does such things , we might laugh at them or might say he has lost his mind, Right?

Likewise maybe we have not read a Human manual, and because of that we don't know how to operate our own system and also operate others around us.

Scientist's Recently quoted a very interesting truth about Human Brain and it says:

 "Brain is wired for Love"

Our original design is Love.

We are here on this earth only with one purpose, that is to love others and being loved.

We are taught from the time we are born, you have to become this, and you have to become that. But no one has ever told us that we are Love beings designed to love and Honor each other..

All the problems we see around us are because from the time we were born, we were forced to operate in a way that was really contrary to our authentic design.

And our Brain that is wired for Love, Don't know actually what to do when it receives signals contrary to its Design.

Brain gets confused when it receives signals contrary to its design and then a chaos is formed inside the brain and body responds according to what the brain processes.

A Healthy Brain, sends Healthy Signals in the entire body which projects a Mentally Fit and Healthy Individual.

Also one of the discoveries scientists revealed is that 95% of sickness are because of wrong thinking patterns developed from childhood.

Brain functions improperly and fails to send the proper signals in Body, Leading to different pains or working difficulties in different parts of the Body.     

We can operate in our full potential, only when we realize how we are designed and operated accordingly.

Whenever we are Accepted, Loved, Honored by our Friends and Family , we feel so valuable and loved and feel like we are at the Top of the world.

Many a times in our society people are treated very rudely from their very childhood which creates brokenness in them, and then they pass this rudeness to others too.

So we are the ones who should take an initiative, else we will be building a culture of hatredness and rejection which will lead to a broken society full of pain and broken people, who can pass only one thing to the society, i.e. brokenness.

Our Identity is: We are Love being's designed to love ourselves and others around us.

And when we start operating in our original design, everything in our life just falls in place;

When we start operating in our original design others around us will also get impacted and our culture also will be greatly influenced;

 Others around us who have not read this, may walk in a way contrary to the Human manual; But our duty is to let them know this truth;

And having read this Human manual still if you are operating in an identity which the world has projected in front of you. Then it would be like telling, all my neighbors and friends are keeping shoes in the refrigerator so I also will do.

If you have read the Human Manual and known your True Design, and still keeping your shoes in the wrong place as your friend is doing then you are world's biggest fool; 

Who even knowing the original design don't want to operate in the real identity and also allowing others to operate in the wrong identity which they have been following because of a wrong Manual they have been following.

So Follow your True Identity and operate in it, and together lets make this world a Beautiful Place of Love and Honor.

Have a Great Day!

                                                      (To Be Continued....)

All Things in Life Work's for our Good!

Life may be not that smooth as we move forward and sometimes we feel: "Oh! I can't take it anymore" and sometimes situation and surroundings may force us to just quit in Life.

Have you ever gone through such a situation where you are doing all that you are supposed to do, but still struggling to just get along with.Then Let me tell you, all that you are going through in Life is not there to destroy you but take you to a new and higher level which you would have never thought of living, when things were going as smooth as you thought.

During those tough times, try spending time with positive people and also have a lonely time where you can Speak to yourself and encourage yourself that this problem which I am facing right now is not there to destroy me but is there to take me to a another high level in life which even, I never Dreamt to have.

Bill gates one statement goes like this : "I failed in some subjects in exam,but my friend passed in all. Now he is an engineer in Microsoft and I am the owner of Microsoft."

  

Just think if Bill also passed in engineering,Like His friend then Bill also would have been limited in His mind to work in a company just like His friend did. But because in Life, He went through such a situation, He thought in a different way and went to be the Founder of Microsoft.

I am not saying Go and just fail in Exams; But I am do saying that, Nothing in life ends, Unless you Give it up;

So see life in a different way, these problems which you are facing is not to destroy you or break you, but is there to build you and push you into the destiny in which you were designed to operate.

We are here to influence and challenge a culture and a Lifestyle and live a life that is being a blessing to thousands and millions of people.

Always remember " All things in Life, Works for our Good."

So have a smile on your face, failures or problems never define you but what you define about yourself is what really matters.

Have a Great Day!

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Cancer/Aids are Curable.

This statement may really Shock you or even may Excite you; For a person who is infected by Cancer/Aids their entire World falls apart, Because of fear and the information they have about these deadly diseases;

Let me tell you ,No matter what the Sickness is or how deadly it is, "IT IS CURABLE". 

We all have Fighter Cells in our Body that fights Sickness and keeps us strong and during times of disease it just multiplies so that the work can be done faster. That is the way our System Works. And Cancerous cells to some extent are formed almost in all body but the fighter cells takes care of it and destroys it;

The thing is we are Powerful beings capable of handling anything that just comes across our Life, even though it may be Cancer or anything;

One word from a Doctor or a symptom in your body, cannot define your Life, and how it should go. 

In the initial stages of Life, Only Our Dreams and Passions were our Leading Factors,  and that was what we were living for and believing to see all that Dream come True; Then why change that Big Dream and Belief Which Brought a   Smile on Our Face , And get into a track which were never a journey we ever planned or dreamed in our Life.

Actually these Sickness or Problems are just hindrances trying to stop us from achieving our Dreams;

They were never a Part of Our Life or Our Dream, then why allowing it take root in our Life now, Only because of One word which we have heard from a Doctor who said  you are not going to survive because you have such and such disease;

The Doctors may be telling something based on the information they have , But the Doctor never knows what our Passion and Dream in Life is.

What I would like to share is Our Dreams are much Stronger and Powerful than any Sickness or Problems that we ever Face.

The moment we start focusing on our Problems instead of our Dreams, The Power of Healing In Us, begins to get of No effect to us.

Never give up your Dreams, It has the Power to Heal and Prosper you.  

We have Healing and Strength in us ready to be released in time of need, but till we know about it and believe that, it won't Manifest in us; And the wrong information which we accumulated  about that problem will eventually choke the treasure of healing which we already have in the inside of us.

There was a study done by some group of Doctors, on some patients who were really ill and have completely lost their hope of living; The medication given to them was really unique; The patients were advised to say words like:  " I am Healthy",   " I am Strong " ,  " I am having an awesome future"  Words which were really Positive and full of Life. 

And  this they have to do at a gap of every 1-2  hour; After 15-20 days of medication the doctors were really amazed by the changes that these patients had by this simple form of medication. They had more Joy, more Hope and the medicine which they took  had a great effect on them.

The thing is When One gets an Image of Health and Fitness in the inside of them, then automatically everything in them Works to get that image to the outside, Remember the Fighter cells which we shared above, everything in our system responds to the Sickness  and guess what, as we have made an image of our health and fitness so will our Body be Fit and Strong.

As the Famous Quote says " What the Mind Believes , the Surrounding Projects".

You might say or think this cannot be that, "Simple". But Many a times its the Simple things we fail to understand.

Whatever we ever need in Life is actually in us. We have Healing in us which is capable of taking care of any sickness that just comes across our Life.

So Today I am declaring over all of you, in Life Cancer/ Aids or any deadly disease just name it, that won't have a last word over your Life. The Only Word that will have a Final Word over your Life will be Health, Success, Prosperity, Joy and Peace.

                                                                        (to be  continued...)

Our Generation Hates Religion,Not God!

Recently, I read one of my friend's Post in our Whats-app Group and it Said : 'Religion is the Biggest bullshit mankind ever created'.

Well, I totally agree to the statement he made.

Religion is something that man has made, it's a bunch of set of rules and regulations which the followers of that community have to follow in-order to get blessings and if they don't do; then they are scared by Curses and forcefully made to follow.

Because of Religion and the way it has been portrayed by people, it really made a Bad and an Unattractive Image of God in a young Generation's Mind.

Guys Believe it or not, God is full of Love and Light and I believe as there is no darkness in Light, so there is no darkness or evil in God.

Now I believe strongly in my heart, why this young Generation is not at all interested in God and all that stuff, and why God is really a boring subject to them; It's not because God is boring, but because they have a boring image of God Portrayed to them by the religious people.

  Actually this generation is not interested in a god that religion has portrayed. A god who is looking to beat them or sent curses the moment they do something wrong.

Religion never showed God as a Good Father, but it always showed God as someone angry with humanity, and in order to appease God's anger we have to do certain rituals.

Our Generation is looking for something Real, they are not interested in doing some rituals, which they even don't understand.

God is not interested in rituals, rather I believe God is interested in Relationship. 

Religion succeeded in establishing fear in People's Heart, and the fear that people have in them forced them to do certain things which they even don't understand, and doing it just because Religion demands them do that in the name of God.

God's Love for all of us is totally Unconditional, Always believe God Loves us so much and nothing is ever going to change that, so instead of approaching or doing anything for God from fear, do it from Love and the acceptance that God has given us all.

Have a Great day.

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Healing Words !

Many a times when Someone criticizes us, insults us or ill treats us, we get offended and think why this is happening to me, what wrong have I done ! And then we get angry on them in our thinking, and we reply back to them or even sometimes we speak to others about them.

Try seeing all this things in a different view Point, that person who is Criticizing you or Scolding you is actually Broken or Hurt inside and,  A person who is Hurt inside can only Hurt others.

So instead of getting offended, give a Big smile and reply them Politely with all Respect;  As Quoted : "A Soft Tongue Break Bones".  A Polite answer is like a Healing Medicine, which we Release into a Person, who is Hurt and Wounded  inside.

And eventually the Healing which we release will heal their Wounds and make them behave the way they should.

A Person who is broken inside, will react even to a small situation, in a Big way.

Getting angry on a person who got angry on us, is really easy; anybody can do it. 

There is nothing Challenging in it, But what is really  challenging is, giving a Polite and Respectful answer, Which actually releases, Healing into that Person.

There are many in our surroundings who really need Healing; So be Vigilant and when the time comes instead of releasing something negative; Release Love, Respect, Joy and Peace into People's Life.

Complaining or Speaking Bad about People will never Change them or change the Situations which they bring Us into.

 What Changes a Person or a Situation, is the way we Respond to it.

Release Healing Words, and see the change it brings.

Have a Blessed day ! 

Never Judge a Person,Without Knowing their Story!

A 24 Year Old Boy, and His Father both entered a Train, and there were other fellow Passengers and also family members with them who were well dressed,Educated and Morally Well Behaved.

As the Train began to move, the 24 year Old Boy just began to get excited and started talking to his daddy saying : Daddy see the trees ,it's going behind us !

Daddy Smiled and Said : Yes Son! It's Going Behind us.

Then after some time, He again got excited and said : Daddy Look , the Clouds are Coming with us.

And Again His Daddy Smiled Listening to it.

When the Fellow Passengers saw this Excitement from a 24 year Old Boy. They just got disturbed and started judging that Boy in their mind; Thinking this boy has Probably lost His Mind , at this age why he is getting excited over such small things, and also his Father instead of scolding his Son, is just supporting his grown up Son's Childishness.

Then Again Seeing a Dog the Son got Excited and said Loudly : Daddy see the Dog there, wow it looks so Good, I am so Happy seeing all this.

Daddy Smiled and Said : I am also Happy  Son seeing you Happy.

At that one of the fellow Passenger said to the Father : Gentleman , I think you Should Consult your Son to a Doctor.

The Child's Father gave a smile and Said : I already did, We are Coming from a Hospital , My Son Just had a Surgery, He was Born Blind and now He can see.

Everybody's Judgment immediately disappeared, and then at the next word of Boy's excitement, not only the Father Joined the excitement but the entire fellow Passenger's did.

Never Judge a Person based on their looks or based on their words they say, because we never knew what that Person went through, in their Life.

A Person's Passion, Dream and Heart cannot be known, just by Seeing them for the first time; We will never know what the persons dream in Life is without knowing them personally ,So Unless we know a person Personally or before knowing their story never Judge.   

"Never Judge a Person unless you have walked in their Shoes".

We are Called in Life not to Judge People, But influence a Generations thinking and Life style.

Have a Great Day !

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Creating a Culture, that Transform a Generation.

This is really an Important topic to Think and share with our Generation, anybody who accepts and follows this way of mind-set, Please do share with all your friends and Loved ones.

Nowadays Marriage and Love Relationships are just a fun game; We hear people getting united in relationships and then we hear stories of their break ups.

And many count this as something "Normal".

This type of life is really Pathetic and Abnormal;

We as an individual should take strong decision and follow strong principles regarding this type of life; No matter what's going on, but as an individual of strong integrity we should Resist and Stand against such a Way of Life.

Don't  get attracted to a person just by their looks or the fame they possess in an institute where we are studying or in a place where we work or anywhere else. Attraction is normal and it happens to all of us, but what we Value more, only can influence us in a stronger way.

What we should value, the most in a relation is Mutual Understanding, which is the most important factor in a relationship; Physical attraction or Physical love do play an important role, but it's not the strongest bonding factor in a marriage or any love relationship; The Most Bonding factor in any relationship is the Mutual Understanding and Love and Respect that individuals have for each other.

Physical attraction and Physical love is really important but that should happen and come from the Mutual Understanding and the Strong Commitment that the two individual have towards each other, rather than from lust.  

Don't try to have a Mutual Understanding from a Physical relationship. It won't work, that way.  

Many Men think flirting or keeping relationship with several Women at the same time is an act of Manhood. "Any Fool"  Yes Any Fool, can have such a type of relation, there is nothing Manhood in it . The Real Manhood is in being committed to one Women  for a Lifetime.

Such a Person is a Person of Integrity and Man or Woman to be greatly Honored.

Marriage or any Love Relationship is not a thing to be done for fun, It's not at all a fun game. It is not a Car or Mobile Hand-set  that we Purchased one day and then we change it;

It's should be a lifetime Commitment that we make with each other. And In Life there may be times, when there will be difference of opinion with each other, But that should be solved instantly by love and affection and apologizing to each other;

 When we apologize we won't become small or less valuable but it actually increases the honor and love in each other's heart.  

Never Forget It's easy to Break a Relationship and that can be done in seconds , but it takes a life time to build one. 

The Best Gift that a Woman and a Man can give to their life Partner is their Virginity. Do not be deceived by physical affections and loose the biggest Gift that God has given us to offer our Life Partner.

So long to have relations where both are able to Mutually understand each other and develop Trust and Intimacy  to a higher level; Where we become examples to other married couples and those planning to get married or getting into love relationships.

In the Long Track of Life it's not the Physical attractions or attachments that is going to keep you walking  together; But it's the Mutual Understanding and Love for each other that is going to keep you together forever.

So develop friendships, Relations that are real and deep, that will make you smile and also bring a smile to your Family and Loved ones too;

This is dedicated Specially to Parents, So that they can teach and help their Children make Good Decision in Life.

If you support this Blog. Share with Friends and Lets Create a Culture where we Value Relationships and Family in a Higher Way.

                                                                    ( A Topic which will be Continued......)

Something Bad will happen ! (BBB-4)

 Blind belief breaking no.4

What if we are going for an important task or an important function and we forgot something to take from our home, so that we have to go back and take that thing back from our home, then we have heard people saying: Oh it's a bad sign, something bad is going to happen in the meeting or in the function which we're attending.

Have you heard anything Like that, Then our view should be, wow today the meeting or the function which we're attending will be great because I forgot something and at the right time I had reminder about it so now I know, I am fully equipped for the task that I am about to do. And all is well with me.

Nobody in that meeting, ever knew that you were attending the meeting such a way, but the negative belief will continuously try to persuade you that because of what happened today morning you are having a disadvantage in this meeting, so don't expect anything Good to happen to you.

And that negative belief will work for your disadvantage, because you have already made up in your mind, that something bad will happen and exactly what you believe manifest;

And then we will make that a blind form of belief and then teach the same stuff to our friends and Loved One's.

So instead of spreading negative energy into our surroundings and to our generation spread positive energy, by having a different view in that particular circumstance.

As Already said : It's our View in a Circumstance that really matters.

Have a great day. Share and break blind beliefs all over your surroundings.

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Every Day is Goooood!!!

We are now Living in a Community Surrounded by people who really have some wrong Belief Regarding Certain Days.

There is a famous Quote which goes like this " Whatever Our Mind Believes, the Surrounding Projects"

We all are thinking beings, and whatever we believe or think in our mind that is the direction our Actions always follows.

For e.g. A Beautiful Home which we see did not Come First, The Thing that came first is a Plan of that Home in a mind which directed that person to draw a plan and then it was taken into process and finally we see the Beautiful Home. It (The Home) did not just come like that one day and stood in front of us all.

So when we believe Certain days are Bad, then we by our thinking are actually making that a Bad day.

All the days are Good and it has been given to us, so that we can Enjoy, Love, Spread Joy all around us.

When we are Moving Forward with such a Positive Mind-set, Believing all the days of Our Life are Good, Then Guess what we will be amazed by the Goodness and Joy that our Surroundings will bring into our Life.

Going for an Interview, Writing an Exam, Stepping out for your Passion, all these if we are facing with such a Positive Attitude and Mind-Set; The only things waiting in Front of us will be Success and Good Breaks.

So Spread Positive Vibes all around you. Have a Gooooooood day. 

   

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