Never Judge a Person,Without Knowing their Story!

A 24 Year Old Boy, and His Father both entered a Train, and there were other fellow Passengers and also family members with them who were well dressed,Educated and Morally Well Behaved.

As the Train began to move, the 24 year Old Boy just began to get excited and started talking to his daddy saying : Daddy see the trees ,it's going behind us !

Daddy Smiled and Said : Yes Son! It's Going Behind us.

Then after some time, He again got excited and said : Daddy Look , the Clouds are Coming with us.

And Again His Daddy Smiled Listening to it.

When the Fellow Passengers saw this Excitement from a 24 year Old Boy. They just got disturbed and started judging that Boy in their mind; Thinking this boy has Probably lost His Mind , at this age why he is getting excited over such small things, and also his Father instead of scolding his Son, is just supporting his grown up Son's Childishness.

Then Again Seeing a Dog the Son got Excited and said Loudly : Daddy see the Dog there, wow it looks so Good, I am so Happy seeing all this.

Daddy Smiled and Said : I am also Happy  Son seeing you Happy.

At that one of the fellow Passenger said to the Father : Gentleman , I think you Should Consult your Son to a Doctor.

The Child's Father gave a smile and Said : I already did, We are Coming from a Hospital , My Son Just had a Surgery, He was Born Blind and now He can see.

Everybody's Judgment immediately disappeared, and then at the next word of Boy's excitement, not only the Father Joined the excitement but the entire fellow Passenger's did.

Never Judge a Person based on their looks or based on their words they say, because we never knew what that Person went through, in their Life.

A Person's Passion, Dream and Heart cannot be known, just by Seeing them for the first time; We will never know what the persons dream in Life is without knowing them personally ,So Unless we know a person Personally or before knowing their story never Judge.   

"Never Judge a Person unless you have walked in their Shoes".

We are Called in Life not to Judge People, But influence a Generations thinking and Life style.

Have a Great Day !

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Creating a Culture, that Transform a Generation.

This is really an Important topic to Think and share with our Generation, anybody who accepts and follows this way of mind-set, Please do share with all your friends and Loved ones.

Nowadays Marriage and Love Relationships are just a fun game; We hear people getting united in relationships and then we hear stories of their break ups.

And many count this as something "Normal".

This type of life is really Pathetic and Abnormal;

We as an individual should take strong decision and follow strong principles regarding this type of life; No matter what's going on, but as an individual of strong integrity we should Resist and Stand against such a Way of Life.

Don't  get attracted to a person just by their looks or the fame they possess in an institute where we are studying or in a place where we work or anywhere else. Attraction is normal and it happens to all of us, but what we Value more, only can influence us in a stronger way.

What we should value, the most in a relation is Mutual Understanding, which is the most important factor in a relationship; Physical attraction or Physical love do play an important role, but it's not the strongest bonding factor in a marriage or any love relationship; The Most Bonding factor in any relationship is the Mutual Understanding and Love and Respect that individuals have for each other.

Physical attraction and Physical love is really important but that should happen and come from the Mutual Understanding and the Strong Commitment that the two individual have towards each other, rather than from lust.  

Don't try to have a Mutual Understanding from a Physical relationship. It won't work, that way.  

Many Men think flirting or keeping relationship with several Women at the same time is an act of Manhood. "Any Fool"  Yes Any Fool, can have such a type of relation, there is nothing Manhood in it . The Real Manhood is in being committed to one Women  for a Lifetime.

Such a Person is a Person of Integrity and Man or Woman to be greatly Honored.

Marriage or any Love Relationship is not a thing to be done for fun, It's not at all a fun game. It is not a Car or Mobile Hand-set  that we Purchased one day and then we change it;

It's should be a lifetime Commitment that we make with each other. And In Life there may be times, when there will be difference of opinion with each other, But that should be solved instantly by love and affection and apologizing to each other;

 When we apologize we won't become small or less valuable but it actually increases the honor and love in each other's heart.  

Never Forget It's easy to Break a Relationship and that can be done in seconds , but it takes a life time to build one. 

The Best Gift that a Woman and a Man can give to their life Partner is their Virginity. Do not be deceived by physical affections and loose the biggest Gift that God has given us to offer our Life Partner.

So long to have relations where both are able to Mutually understand each other and develop Trust and Intimacy  to a higher level; Where we become examples to other married couples and those planning to get married or getting into love relationships.

In the Long Track of Life it's not the Physical attractions or attachments that is going to keep you walking  together; But it's the Mutual Understanding and Love for each other that is going to keep you together forever.

So develop friendships, Relations that are real and deep, that will make you smile and also bring a smile to your Family and Loved ones too;

This is dedicated Specially to Parents, So that they can teach and help their Children make Good Decision in Life.

If you support this Blog. Share with Friends and Lets Create a Culture where we Value Relationships and Family in a Higher Way.

                                                                    ( A Topic which will be Continued......)

Something Bad will happen ! (BBB-4)

 Blind belief breaking no.4

What if we are going for an important task or an important function and we forgot something to take from our home, so that we have to go back and take that thing back from our home, then we have heard people saying: Oh it's a bad sign, something bad is going to happen in the meeting or in the function which we're attending.

Have you heard anything Like that, Then our view should be, wow today the meeting or the function which we're attending will be great because I forgot something and at the right time I had reminder about it so now I know, I am fully equipped for the task that I am about to do. And all is well with me.

Nobody in that meeting, ever knew that you were attending the meeting such a way, but the negative belief will continuously try to persuade you that because of what happened today morning you are having a disadvantage in this meeting, so don't expect anything Good to happen to you.

And that negative belief will work for your disadvantage, because you have already made up in your mind, that something bad will happen and exactly what you believe manifest;

And then we will make that a blind form of belief and then teach the same stuff to our friends and Loved One's.

So instead of spreading negative energy into our surroundings and to our generation spread positive energy, by having a different view in that particular circumstance.

As Already said : It's our View in a Circumstance that really matters.

Have a great day. Share and break blind beliefs all over your surroundings.

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Every Day is Goooood!!!

We are now Living in a Community Surrounded by people who really have some wrong Belief Regarding Certain Days.

There is a famous Quote which goes like this " Whatever Our Mind Believes, the Surrounding Projects"

We all are thinking beings, and whatever we believe or think in our mind that is the direction our Actions always follows.

For e.g. A Beautiful Home which we see did not Come First, The Thing that came first is a Plan of that Home in a mind which directed that person to draw a plan and then it was taken into process and finally we see the Beautiful Home. It (The Home) did not just come like that one day and stood in front of us all.

So when we believe Certain days are Bad, then we by our thinking are actually making that a Bad day.

All the days are Good and it has been given to us, so that we can Enjoy, Love, Spread Joy all around us.

When we are Moving Forward with such a Positive Mind-set, Believing all the days of Our Life are Good, Then Guess what we will be amazed by the Goodness and Joy that our Surroundings will bring into our Life.

Going for an Interview, Writing an Exam, Stepping out for your Passion, all these if we are facing with such a Positive Attitude and Mind-Set; The only things waiting in Front of us will be Success and Good Breaks.

So Spread Positive Vibes all around you. Have a Gooooooood day. 

   

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Seeing Certain People is a Bad Luck- BBB- 3

Today's Blind Belief Breaking(BBB) part 3

We have heard People Say: If we see Certain People in the Morning or when we are going Out for Some Particular task then, that entire day will be a failure or Bad day for us.

Have you heard anything like that, then Let me Tell You It's a Blind Belief.

Lets break this Blind belief:

 No matter whoever appears in front of us, at any time because we are Blessed and have Royal Blood flowing through Us, Nobody can make our Day Bad; Instead the other Person will get some Good Breaks just because they saw us.

If we believe Good things are going to happen to us then only Good things will happen ; And if we are expecting Bad things to happen then certainly that will happen; And for that negative thinking don't blame your failure on any person, it's not them that's the reason for your failure but it's your thinking.

We are too Strong, too Blessed, too successful that nothing ever can hinder us or stand in our Way;

Have a Great Day. If you are influenced do, forward this to your Loved ones and friends. Lets Spread Positive Vibes all around us.  

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A Cat Crossing our Path- Blind Belief Part-1

How many of you are ready to break some old blind beliefs from your Mind 

 Blind Beliefs are something, which we have heard from our Loved ones or from our friends, we just follow it blindly and pass onto others too;

Lets Pass stuff that really make a generation Positive, instead of passing negative stuff that keeps people in fear and persuading people to believe and expect bad to happen.

So Today we will share about:

 If a Black Cat crosses our way then something Bad is going to happen; 

Have you heard of it or maybe even you believe in it, because of what you have heard since your childhood.

Then Lets Break it from our Mind and Start Viewing it in a different Angle.

So our declaration in such a situation should be: Wow a Cat crossed my Way, So today something good is going to happen to me.

   

 Actually a Cat or any Animal crossing our path has nothing to do with the Good or Bad things happening to us. It’s all about Our view to the circumstances that matters; If We Believe Good, We See Good;

                    

 So," Let’s believe Good and see Good."                                       

We will share different types of blind beliefs in our Coming Blogs, and just view all such Blind beliefs in a different Angle and Pass a Good and Positive Mind-Set to all our Friends and Family.

                                                

So are You ready? (If you have any such blind belief to share, feel free to share we will break it)

Related Article : God is Testing -Blind Belief -Part 2

Whatever we surrender ourselves to, that will Captive us;

Whatever we surrender ourselves to, that will Captive us.

This is a principle and it applies to all areas of life.

In one or the other way, we all are surrendered to certain People, certain belief, certain Life, certain thoughts in our mind. And guess what, Only what we have surrendered our mind to Only have captivating power in our life;

If we have surrendered our mind to a Good family life and Good relationships then we can only be captivated or dominated by such a life, and nothing less than that can ever captive us.

That does not mean we won't have a situation where we will never feel captivated by hurt, wounds, loneliness and negative feelings; The thing is these things cannot take us into captivity because we have not surrendered ourselves to such a way of life or such a Mind-Set.

Circumstances ( For e.g. Unemployment, Bodily Sickness, Family Problems, Failures) can sometimes force to take us into Captivity of Fear, Pain, Loneliness, Depression;

But If Knocks of Circumstances are not letting our Mind Surrender to such a Life of Captivity above mentioned, then guess what nothing absolutely nothing other than Joy, Success ,Peace can ever Captive Our Lives.

Never Ever Forget, Whatever Our Mind Surrenders to, only that can dominate or influence Us. Have a Great Day.